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Gentlemen, It's Time to Take a Stand for Your Masculinity
Welcome to this week's BONUS Free Article, brothers. Today, weβre diving deep into a shocking incident thatβs gone viral: French President Emmanuel Macron was shoved in the face by his wife, Brigitte, as they exited a plane in Vietnam. This moment, caught on camera, isnβt just tabloid fodder, itβs a glaring red flag about toxic relationships and a masterclass in what happens when boundaries are ignored.
As men, we can learn from this. Letβs break it down and arm you with the tools to command respect, protect your masculinity, and build unshakable confidence in your relationships.
The leader of France, a man negotiating with global heavyweights like Putin and Trump, steps off a plane in Vietnam, only to be shoved in the face by his wife, Brigitte, in front of cameras.
This isnβt just a private spat gone public, itβs a humiliating display of disrespect that screams toxicity. Now, letβs flip the script. If a male leader did this to his wife, the world would erupt in outrage. The double standard is glaring, but the lesson is universal: toxic behavior has no place in any relationship, no matter who you are.
This moment is a wake-up call for every man reading this. Whether youβre leading a nation or your own household, allowing disrespect to fester in your relationships is a direct attack on your manhood. Letβs unpack the lessons from this incident and how you can apply them to become the respected, confident man youβre meant to be.
Lesson #1: Boundaries Are Non-Negotiable
Women will test your boundaries, itβs not malice; itβs instinct. They want to know where your line is, and if you donβt draw it, theyβll keep pushing until youβre a doormat. Macronβs public humiliation is a textbook example of what happens when a man fails to set and enforce boundaries. If Brigitte felt comfortable disrespecting him on camera, imagine what happens behind closed doors. This didnβt start with a shove, it started the moment he let smaller acts of disrespect slide.
Identify Your Non-Negotiables: What behaviors will you not tolerate? Disrespectful tone? Public humiliation? Write them down. Clarity is power.
Communicate Boundaries Early: The first time she crosses a line, address it calmly but firmly. For example, βI donβt appreciate being spoken to that way. Letβs keep this respectful.β
Enforce Consequences: If she disregards your boundary, act decisively. This could mean a serious conversation, taking space, or, in extreme cases, walking away. Silence is not strengthβitβs surrender.
I once coached a client, whose girlfriend would yell at him in front of friends. He thought staying quiet showed maturity. Instead, it emboldened her. After coaching, he calmly told her, βIf you raise your voice at me in public again, Iβm leaving.β The next time it happened, he walked away. She apologized, and the behavior stopped. Boundaries work when you enforce them.
Lesson #2: Stop Being a βYes Manβ
Macronβs incident highlights a deeper issue: the danger of being a βyes man.β If youβre constantly bending to your partnerβs whims, sacrificing your values to keep the peace, youβre chipping away at your masculine energy. Women donβt respect men they can controlβthey crave a man who stands firm in his convictions.
The βhappy wife, happy lifeβ mantra is misinterpreted. Yes, prioritize your partnerβs happiness, but not at the cost of your identity. Saying βnoβ respectfully is a power move. It shows youβre a man with a spine, not a servant.
Know Your Values: Take 10 minutes to list your core principles (e.g., honesty, respect, ambition). When she asks you to compromise these, say no with confidence.
Practice Saying No: Start small. If she suggests something youβre uncomfortable with, say, βIβm not okay with that, but letβs find a solution that works for both of us.β
Lead with Respect: Saying no doesnβt mean being a jerk. Frame it as a commitment to mutual respect: βI care about us, so Iβm being honest about what I wonβt accept.β
Think of the guy at the self-checkout whose girlfriend screamed at him over speakerphone: βWhy the f*** are you at the store?β His weak βI know, chillβ response showed heβd already ceded control. A man who respects himself wouldβve said, βDonβt speak to me like that. Iβll call you back when youβre ready to talk respectfully.β Thatβs leadership.
Lesson #3: Self-Respect Breeds Her Respect
If you donβt respect yourself, no woman will. Low self-worth is a silent killer of masculinity. When you act like youβre βluckyβ to have her, youβre handing her the reins to walk all over you. Macron may lead a nation, but if heβs tolerating disrespect at home, it signals a lack of self-respect that undermines his authority.
Women are drawn to men who know their worth. If youβre constantly seeking her approval or fearing her leaving, youβre projecting weakness. A woman can sense low self-esteem, and itβs a turn-off. Worse, it invites disrespect, or even infidelity, down the line.
Build Self-Worth Daily: Invest in yourself, hit the gym, pursue a hobby, or read books. Small wins build confidence.
Stop Seeking Validation: Her approval doesnβt define you. Focus on your goals and purpose. A woman respects a man whoβs on his path, not orbiting hers.
Affirm Your Value: Write down three things you respect about yourself daily. It could be your work ethic, loyalty, or courage. Own it.
I worked with a client, who felt βluckyβ to date a woman out of his league. He tolerated her belittling comments because he feared losing her. After months of building his confidence through fitness and career focus, he realized he deserved better. He ended the relationship and later attracted a woman who respected him fully. Self-respect is magnetic.
Lesson #4: Donβt Fear Losing Her More Than Losing Yourself
Hereβs a hard truth: If youβre more afraid of losing her than losing your identity, youβve already lost. A woman who thinks she can do whatever she wants because youβll never leave is a woman who doesnβt respect you.
Macronβs public shove suggests a dynamic where heβs tolerated too much for too long. You can love and cherish your woman, but if she crosses into toxic territory, you must be willing to walk away.
Embrace the Walk-Away Mindset: Remind yourself daily: βI love her, but I love myself enough to walk away from toxicity.β This mindset keeps you grounded.
Assess Her Behavior: Is her disrespect a one-off or a pattern? If itβs a pattern and she refuses to change after youβve addressed it, sheβs not the one.
Prioritize Your Peace: A healthy relationship brings peace, not chaos. If sheβs constantly testing or disrespecting you, sheβs not your queenβsheβs your adversary.
A client I know, stayed in a toxic relationship because he feared being alone. His girlfriend mocked him openly, knowing he wouldnβt leave.
After coaching, he realized his fear was costing him his dignity. He left, rebuilt his confidence, and is now in a relationship with a woman who treats him like a king. Walking away isnβt failure, itβs freedom.
Lesson #5: Purpose Over Partner
A man without a purpose is a man without a spine. Women respect men who have a vision and are actively pursuing it. If your world revolves around her, youβre not a partner, youβre a puppy. Macronβs incident is a reminder: No matter how powerful you are, if youβre not leading your life with purpose, youβre vulnerable to disrespect.
Your purpose, whether itβs your career, passion, or personal growth, must come first. A woman will respect a man whoβs driven, not one who makes her his entire world. βNever put your woman over your purpose.β When you prioritize her over your mission, you lose her respect and your own.
Define Your Purpose: What drives you? If you donβt know, start exploring. Take a course, volunteer, or journal about your passions.
Show Her Your Vision: Share your goals with her. Let her see youβre a man on a mission, not a drifter.
Balance Love and Ambition: Make time for her, but never sacrifice your purpose. A woman who respects you will support your grind, not compete with it.
Example: Look at any high-value man, whether itβs an entrepreneur or an athlete. His focus on his mission makes him attractive. Women donβt respect a man who abandons his goals to please her. They want a leader, not a follower.
Lesson #6: Choose the Right Woman
Sometimes, the problem isnβt you, itβs her. Not every woman is meant for you, no matter how much you want her. If sheβs consistently disrespectful despite your efforts to set boundaries, communicate, and lead with purpose, sheβs not the one. Macronβs situation might reflect a mismatch in values or a woman who doesnβt respect his leadership. Donβt waste your life trying to fix someone who doesnβt fit.
Vet Her Early: Pay attention to her body language, tone, and actions in the first few encounters. Does she respect you from the start? Or is she already testing you?
Seek Connection, Not Just Attraction: A woman can be stunning but toxic. Look for peace, mutual respect, and shared values.
Know When to Let Go: If sheβs not the one, release her. The right woman will honor your masculinity, not challenge it.
I had a friend, who was obsessed with a woman who constantly criticized him. He thought he could βfixβ her by being nicer. After months of frustration, he realized she didnβt respect him because she wasnβt right for him. He moved on and found a woman who valued his leadership. The lesson? Choose wisely.
Be the Man Who Commands Respect
Gentlemen, the Macron incident is a mirror for every man. Disrespect doesnβt start with a public shove, it starts the moment you let her cross your boundaries without consequence. You are not a doormat. You are not a βyes man.β You are a man with purpose, value, and strength. Hereβs how to start commanding respect today:
Set Boundaries Now: Identify one area where youβve tolerated disrespect. Address it with calm, firm clarity this week.
Invest in Yourself: Pick one activity (gym, reading, a new skill) to boost your confidence and start today.
Reflect on Your Relationship: Is she disrespecting you because youβve allowed it? Or is she simply not the one? Be honest.
Join the Brotherhood: Share your story in the comments or reply to this newsletter. Letβs build a community of men who refuse to tolerate toxicity.
You deserve a relationship that elevates your masculinity, not diminishes it. Donβt let a woman, or anyone, shove you in the face, figuratively or literally. Step into your power, set the standard, and never settle for less than youβre worth.
Stay strong, brothers.
Mr.Wayne
Wayneβs Executive Circle
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