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What Iβm about to share is a truth so profound, so counterintuitive to everything youβve been taught, that itβs going to flip your entire perspective on women, dating, and your own masculinity. Most men, 90% of them, are stuck in a cycle of frustration, rejection, and self-doubt, not because theyβre not good enough, but because theyβre chasing women who donβt want them. Theyβve bought into a Hollywood-fueled lie that the chase is what defines a man, that if a woman isnβt interested, you just need to βtry harder.β Thatβs not just wrong, itβs a soul-draining, potential-killing trap thatβs keeping you from your true power.
The Hollywood Lie: Chasing Women Is a Trap
Letβs start with a confession most men can relate to: weβve all been brainwashed by movies. Growing up, we watched films where the hero chases the girl relentlessly, pulls off some grand gesture, and wins her heart.
Thatβs what we thought gave life meaning. If a woman showed no interest, it was a challenge, a sign from βnatureβ to double down and try harder. Iβve been there, and so have you. You pour your heart into chasing βBritneyβ whoβs flaky, distant, or just not reciprocating, thinking thatβs the path to proving your worth. But the truth is, chasing a woman who doesnβt want you ruins your life and kills your potential.
Imagine this a guy at a club, fixated on a woman whoβs giving him nothing, while his buddy Jim points out, βWhy you chasing her? There were three women checking you out.β Youβre so focused on the one whoβs not interested that youβre blind to the women who are.
When you chase a woman who doesnβt want you, you get played. You waste time, energy, and mental bandwidth, and you end up frustrated, questioning your value. Itβs like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in it, youβre left empty, wondering why youβre not enough.
The real power lies in flipping the script. Women choose the men. This is a principle that βestablished players and pimpsβ understand instinctively. You might think, βBut Iβm approaching her, Iβm choosing her!β Nah, thatβs not how it works.
The sequence is: she shows interest first, through a look, a smile, a conversation, and then you confirm her choice by making a move. This isnβt about giving up your power; itβs about claiming it. When you chase a woman whoβs not interested, youβre handing her the keys to your self-worth. When you focus on the women who want you, youβre in the driverβs seat.
Women Are Feedback: Your Tribe Reflects You
The women who are into you are a mirror reflecting who you are. βYouβre the only common factor. They are just a reflection of who you are.β
If youβre attracting women you donβt vibe with, maybe theyβre βratchet,β low-class, or constantly disrespecting you, thatβs not a coincidence. Itβs feedback. Itβs telling you something about your current state, your energy, your confidence, your masculinity.
Conversely, if youβre pulling high-quality women, attractive, cooperative, traditional, or whatever your ideal is, thatβs also feedback. Itβs saying, βYouβre doing something right.β
If you get a bunch of women who just plain disrespecting you, theyβre saying something about you. If youβre getting women who see you as a βmarkβ (someone to use for money or resources), thatβs a signal. If youβre getting women who are invested, respectful, and aligned with your vision, thatβs a signal too.
The type of women who are naturally drawn to you. These women share common traits: body type, personality, style, values. Maybe theyβre athletic, artsy, career-driven, or traditional. Maybe they wear their hair a certain way or have a specific vibe. The key is to pay attention to the patterns. Whoβs showing interest? Whoβs going out of their way to talk to you in social settings? Whoβs making it easy? Thatβs your tribe, and itβs a goldmine of insight.
If you donβt like your tribe, the only thing they have in common is you. If you have 20 women showing some interest but they all physically unappealing to you or got some personality traits you donβt like, you want to change that, you change yourself.
This is about owning your power to shape your reality. If youβre attracting women who donβt align with your standards, itβs time to level up. Work on your masculinity, your body, your confidence, and watch how your tribe shifts. If you work on yourself and develop your masculinity, you develop your body, you keep yourself up, and then you start getting a better class of women.
Body Game: The Silent Superpower Most Men Ignore
Letβs talk about body game. Body game isnβt just about hitting the gym, itβs about optimizing your entire presence to radiate confidence, vitality, and masculinity without saying a word.
Thereβs a guy I know, who dropped 5-7% body fat and gained 2-3 pounds of muscle over a year. Thatβs not a Mr. Olympia transformation, but it was enough to shift how women responded to him. Women who previously βfriend-zonedβ him were suddenly βdoing nasty things to his body.β Why? Because body game is a silent superpower.
This is the one domain of life where you have a one-to-one correlation between how much interest you get and how much work you put into your body. When you improve your body composition, dress better, and carry yourself with confidence, you become a βhighly conducive, highly charged human being.β
Women are bioelectric creatures, they pick up on your energy. Start with simple habits: sleep well, get sunlight, eat a nutrient-dense diet, and chase momentum in your life. Theyβre attraction amplifiers.
Body game isnβt about looking like a fitness model. You donβt have to get in super shape or look like a bodybuilder. Itβs about being the best version of you. One woman may tell a big dude she wants to βput 40 pounds on you.β Thatβs her preference, some women love slim guys, others want the βroughneckβ look, some go for the fashion model vibe. The point is to look your best body, whatever that means for you. When you do, women notice. They start holding longer conversations, giving you more attention, and showing interest in ways you mightβve missed before.
Detachment: The Magnetic Force You Canβt Fake
Why is detachment so attractive? Because neediness kills attraction. When youβre chasing a woman whoβs not into you, youβre screaming, βI need your validation!β Thatβs not sexy, itβs desperate. Detachment, on the other hand, says, βIβm good with or without you.β Itβs magnetic, and It canβt be faked.
How do you cultivate detachment? By having options. The more options you have, the less youβre going to be attached to one option. And how do you develop options? By focusing on you. When youβre living well, eating right, sleeping well, chasing progress, you naturally attract more women. You donβt need to be a βbig dudeβ or have a perfect body. Even if you are a guy who has been lifting for two years and still isnβt βthereβ yet, but you are making progress. Thatβs enough to shift the energy you give off.
When you stop chasing the flaky women and focus on yourself, those same women often start chasing you. When you enter a new season of your life where youβre healthier, youβre fitter, when you focus on the things in life that serve you more than the ones that donβt, suddenly those old opportunities that originally were closed off to you, they open up more. Itβs like God rewards you for prioritizing yourself. Women who ignored you before start noticing you when youβre radiating confidence and momentum.
Stop Simping: Invest in What Gives Back
Are you someone who puts energy into things that donβt give energy back. Thatβs a life-changing insight. If youβre pouring your heart into a woman whoβs not reciprocating, youβre simping. If youβre chasing goals or agendas that drain you without reward, youβre simping. Life is about return on energy. There should be a return on life, a return on energy with many of the things you pursue. If itβs not giving back, let it go.
The women who want you, theyβre the ones making it easy. Theyβre not playing games or making you jump through hoops. Theyβre showing up, engaging, and giving you energy back. Imagine βBritneyβ who makes you egg whites but leaves you frustrated while βthe other girlβ willingly massages you and cook for you, the latter is way better. Choose the ones who make it easy, because thatβs where the real rewards are. Pay attention to the ones who make it easy for you. There will always be women who make it easy for you.
Hereβs how to decode your tribe:
Observe the Signals: In social settings, notice whoβs giving you consistent eye contact, starting conversations, or being friendly. Which woman is looking at you consistently, trying to say hi to you, consistently being friendly? These are your green lights.
Identify Patterns: What do these women have in common? Are they artsy, corporate, or laid-back? Do they share a vibe or values? This tells you whoβs naturally drawn to you.
Upgrade Your Tribe: If you donβt like the women in your tribe, change you. If youβre getting a bunch of busted ass women, thatβs saying what they saying. Level up your body game, your style, your confidence, and watch your tribe shift to higher-quality women.
The mind-blowing insight here is that your tribe is feedback about you. If youβre attracting women who disrespect you or see you as a mark, thatβs a signal to work on yourself. If youβre pulling women who are cooperative, attractive, and aligned with your vision, thatβs a sign youβre on the right track. If you get women who want to be more traditionalists and in cooperation to your operation, that says something about you. Your tribe is your mirror, use it to grow.
Instead of chasing some universal ideal, focus on being the best version of yourself. The best thing you can do is become the best version of yourself and then see which women are checking you out.
This is liberating. You donβt need to be someone else, you just need to maximize you. When you do, youβll attract women who vibe with your unique energy, whether youβre lean, stocky, or somewhere in between.
The Bioelectric Edge: Become a High-Charged Man
Weβre bioelectric creatures. Your energy, your vibe, determines how women perceive you. If youβre depressed, low-energy, or stuck in your own mind, youβre broadcasting a signal that repels women. But when youβre a βhighly conducive, highly charged human being,β you become magnetic.
How do you get there?
Sleep Well: Aim for 7-8 hours of quality sleep to recharge your body and mind.
Get Sunlight: Natural light boosts your mood and energy levels.
Eat Nutrient-Dense Foods: Fuel your body with whole foods that give you vitality.
Chase Momentum: Set big goals, βIβm going to make a million dollars and get jackedβ, not because you need to hit them, but because they give you direction. You donβt actually have to make the million dollars, you donβt actually have to get jacked, but if you just use those two cues, most of your energy into living well, the vibes you give off are right.
When youβre healthy, confident, and moving forward, women pick up on it. They sense your momentum, and it draws them in like moths to a flame.
You Are the Common Factor
Your main relationship is with yourself. It really comes down to you. It comes down to who you are. Women are just feedback, reflecting your current state. If you want better women, become a better man. If you want more options, focus on your growth. If you want respect, respect yourself first.
Women are really just a feedback like a body game. When you start working out and women look your way more, thatβs feedback. When you dress better and they hold longer conversations, thatβs feedback. When you walk with confidence and your tribe shifts to higher-quality women, thatβs feedback. Use it to grow, not to blame.
Stop chasing the women who donβt want you. Pay attention to the ones who do, the ones who make it easy, who show up, who give you energy back. Work on your body game, cultivate detachment, decode your tribe, and build a life thatβs so damn electric, women canβt help but be drawn to you.
Pay attention to the results in life that want you and that make it easy for you, cuz actually when you pursue the stuff that makes it easy, everything else becomes easier too.
Go out there and own it, king. The women who want you are waiting, you just need to see them, become the man they canβt ignore, and watch your life transform.
Stay strong,
Mr.Wayne
Wayneβs Executive Circle
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