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An anonymous Persian poem:
βLife is yours, death is mine.
Peace is yours, stress is mine.
Happiness is yours, sorrow is mine.
Everything is yours, but you are mine.β
Brother,
Letβs speak truth for a moment, not the polished, pretty kind they feed you in commercialsβ¦ but the kind of truth men feel in their bones and carry on their backs.
There's a quote that hit me like a punch to the chest the first time I heard it:
βStress is mine, happiness is yours.β
Whether you agree with everything I say or not, you can't deny this one line slices straight into the masculine experience, especially within family dynamics.
π₯ THE UNSPOKEN TRADE
In most households, thereβs an invisible contract.
You, the man, carry the weight.
The pressure. The uncertainty. The responsibility.
And for what?
So that the people you love can live lighter, laugh easier, and never know how close the edge really is.
βWe as men suffer and our loved ones get the good side of our suffering.β
Itβs reality for any man who leads.
You absorb the stress.
They enjoy the peace.
You shield them from chaos.
They feel safe, provided for, free.
Youβre not thanked for it. Hell, sometimes youβre mocked for βnot showing enough emotion.β But deep down, you know the truthβ¦
βYou wonβt mind.β
Because you love them. Because youβre strong enough to take it.
Because thatβs the masculine role, protection through presence, sacrifice in silence.
But let me ask you something important:
π THE CHRISTMAS IRONY
Letβs make this painfully realβ¦
Christmas rolls around.
Your kids are bouncing off the walls with joy.
Your woman opens up thoughtful gifts from friends and family.
And you? You unwrap the classic βdadβ gift: a new tie. Maybe some socks. π
Cue the awkward chuckles.
You smile.
You laugh it off.
But part of you wondersβ¦ βDo they see me?β
Not just the provider. Not just the rock.
Do they see the man behind the armor?
This isnβt about presents.
But about presence.
About the imbalance that most men carry, silently, every single day.
π§ THE DEEP TRUTH
Masculine sacrifice is often invisible, by design.
Youβre expected to:
Take the hits and stay standing
Absorb the pressure without complaint
Solve problems before they appear
And somehow remain emotionally available while doing it all
Thatβs not weakness.
Thatβs not passivity.
Thatβs honor.
Thatβs duty.
Thatβs what separates boys from men.
But hereβs the catch, brother:
If you donβt recognize the weight you carry, no one else will.
And if you donβt learn to lead with clarity, your silent suffering can become resentment, and thatβs poison to the family youβre trying to protect.
π§ WHAT TO DO WITH THIS WISDOM
Acknowledge the weight.
Donβt pretend itβs easy. Thatβs fake stoicism. Youβre allowed to bleed, just do it with purpose.Find your space to be seen.
You canβt be the unbreakable one forever without cracking. Join a Brotherhood around you, one that understands the load you bear.Teach through example.
Not with speeches, but with presence. Let your kids see what love through discipline looks like. Let your woman feel your strength not just in words, but in silence, direction, and boundaries.Stop expecting fairness.
The world wonβt reward you for doing your job. Thatβs the masculine cross to bear. But your reward is deeper, legacy, pride, and the quiet satisfaction of knowing: βThey are safe because I endured.β
Most men are aching to be appreciated.
But the highest level of masculine mastery is this:
To be okay with never being fully understood, and leading anyway.
Iβm unpacking this today so you can live it with intention.
If this hit you in the chest⦠good.
Youβre not alone. And youβre not crazy.
Just strong in a world that forgot what strong looks like.
Stay sharp. Stay dangerous. Stay true.
Mr. Wayne
School Of Men
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