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Jo’s Corner's avatar

Really loved this , I totally agree , so succinctly put ! Can save men a lot great deal of time and heartache if they all listen to this ! I’ve sent it to my son

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Autonomous's avatar

The feeling she seeks is the feeling of CONTROL. It’s an unconscious desire for security. It can never be satisfied.

If she finds an Alpha male then she can be a beta- female. If a beta- male makes her his goddess, she becomes a despotic, erratic tyrant, constantly trying to argue, make-up, then contradict his own power & self assurance.

You can make her the queen of the Universe and she will still resent you for reminding her that she is not an inherent goddess but rather that you have made her into one. Feminism has pushed the idea of woman’s β€œinherent inner goddess principle”. It’s all imagination, if one lives sentimentally in the past, or looks fancifully to the future, they are living in their imagination. Alpha’s live in the present, betas are sentimental. Never, ever tell a woman your problems, she will use that to control you.

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Autonomous's avatar

Emotional people are not meant to lead because they so easily lose their way depending upon β€œhow they feel”. Women are emotional, no? LGBTQ are emotional yes! Men are meant to be practical, logical & present.

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PostPlandemicChronicles's avatar

As Aaron Clarey said, β€œwomen barely like men”.

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Scott Bodiford's avatar

Terrific article as usual!

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Kev's avatar

Wrong!!

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Scott Bodiford's avatar

What exactly is wrong? Can you provide any context???

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Kev's avatar

Sorry. Forgot what the initial comment was.

Something like Women don't care anything about men?

Well. They care about themselves and theirs, money and materialism, putting men to labor, being worshipped, and being supported.

I would say this is caring, wouldn't you?

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David Chambers's avatar

This has been apparent to me since I was a very young man, through my relationship with my mother. It was always more important to her how I β€˜felt’ about a given situation, thing, event, etc., and never about the facts- what actually happened, who gained, who lost. Feelings were paramount. Eventually, I tired of this paradigm, and became masterful at producing the emotional reactions necessary to keep her at bay, a practice of removing my own feelings from the equation when the situation presented as one where my goals might be affected by emotional entanglement. It is akin to having a switch, like a lamp has, but instead of illuminating the reality, turning the lamp on only serves to color the reality differently, distracting me from achieving my goal. This is from a man who is known to be very entertaining- even with strangers- because the creation, direction, and manipulation of feelings in women is a direct path toward establishing control over the social interaction, which in turn keeps me on task. It’s a simple formula, and has never let me down- not with my mother, my sister, my nieces, nor with any woman I meet. I get asked out, flirted with, openly chased and admired- and while it is gratifying- it does not sway me from my purpose. I never made any significant money working a job (Just Over Broke), but now have a portfolio worth tens of millions of dollars, because I have always been determined to end up in a situation where I call all the shots, and anyone who does not like that is gone from my presence immediately. I have emotional stability and satisfaction, and a purpose which is unknown to anyone but me. If there is only another 5-10 years of this for me, it will all have been well worth it.

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